Choosing a preschool is a big decision, and a tour is the best way to get a real feel for a school. You'll see the classrooms, meet the teachers and, most importantly, picture your child there.
To help you get the most out of every visit, here are the questions we'd ask if we were in your shoes. They work at any school, including ours.
1. What does a typical day look like?
Ask for the daily rhythm: arrival, play, meals, outdoor time, naps and pick-up. A good day for young children has a steady routine with plenty of room for play and exploring.
2. How do children learn here?
Some schools focus on worksheets and drills; others are play-based. Ask how a 2-, 3- or 4-year-old actually spends their time and how teachers build on what children are curious about.
3. Who are the teachers, and how long have they been here?
Teachers who stay year after year make children feel safe and known. Ask about experience, training and how long the team has worked together.
4. How big are the classes?
Ask about group sizes and how many teachers are in each room. Smaller groups mean more attention for every child.
5. How do you help new children settle in?
The first weeks matter. Ask how the school handles separation, whether parents can stay for the first days, and how teachers comfort a child who is having a hard time.
6. How will I know about my child's day?
Photos, notes, meals, naps: ask how and how often families hear from teachers, and how easy it is to reach someone with a question.
7. How much time do children spend outside?
Fresh air and big movement are essential at this age. Ask where children play outdoors and what happens on rainy or very cold days.
8. How do you handle allergies, medicine and safety?
Ask who is allowed to pick up, how allergies are tracked, and what happens if a child gets hurt or feels unwell.
9. How do you handle big feelings?
Every toddler has them. Ask how teachers respond to tears, tantrums and conflicts between friends. Look for calm, kind guidance rather than punishment.
10. What do families love most about this school?
It's a great question for the director, and an even better one for current parents. Reading reviews helps too.
Trust your gut
The right preschool usually just feels right. Notice how teachers talk to children, whether the children seem happy and busy, and whether you can picture your child walking through the door.
We'd love to show you around. Book a tour at our Park Slope or Prospect Heights school and bring every one of these questions.